Blogging made me realize some things…
Well would you look at that, 2013 is all but over already. It’s been a blast doing the blog this year, but I’ve come across a few things. And for the most part, I’ve realized that I wouldn’t have figured these things out if I hadn’t started blogging. I used to be one of those people who would buy anything, as long as the synopsis sounded good, and it had a nice cover. Because I used to love reading, I really did. But I can’t say I love it as much anymore.
As you can see things have been pretty slow around Our Thoughts Precisely as of late—*Cricket Chirping*—but it’s not without reason. I really just haven’t found much that I actually wanted to read. As far as 2013 has gone, it’s been a pretty dismal year on the book end for me. I started getting so many bad books that it had gotten to the point where I didn’t even want to give any new authors a chance. Many times I found myself questioning why I’m still blogging when all I felt like I was doing was wasting my time and sometimes my money.
Sometimes I’ve bought books thinking I’m getting one thing, and then when I actually get to the reading part, I find that the synopsis was misleading. Book covers are book covers. You can make it look as pretty as you want, but at the end of the day, it comes down to what’s inside of a book. A book cover isn’t going to make me like a book, sorry. Many times I’ve seen other bloggers/readers gush about a book, and I fully expect to love it too. But that’s not the case. And some of these books that I’m talking about never even made it to the review stage, and probably never will.
Moving on, this year I found myself unwilling to promote certain books—I won’t name names. And that was because of one thing. It’s an issue with comfort, some things I’m just not comfortable reading, and never will be. While things that bother me might not bother others, the blog is just an expression of our opinions, no one else’s. But that being said we are not, in any way looking for books with the following content: child abuse, excessive drug/alcohol use, older men interested in underage girls/vice-versa, lack of consequences for actions, and woman being mistreated/ disrespected in ways that crossed—overshot it actually—the line of ok into straight vulgarity. If the book has gone into that vulgar territory, then I’m not obligated to say a thing about it. Because I won’t, and will not ever recommend something that I wouldn’t even show my own mother. Oh, I forgot one on that list, too much sexual content, to the point where the plot suffers a great deal because of it.
I want to read to be entertained, to be immersed in a world that I could get lost in. I don’t want to feel frustrated at the end of a book because the shock value overshadowed the plot. I would love to see more books with strong female leads who are independent, resilient, and don't need a boyfriend to justify their existence. I just don’t want to feel like I want the hours I lost back.
Maybe 2014 will be better, or maybe it won’t. No one can say for sure until the new batch of books start rolling in. Needless to say, I’ve moved away from YA. I’ve mostly been sticking with Middle Grade, or just General Fiction books. I don’t know, maybe I just haven’t been finding the right books. Was your year of books better than mine? If you want, leave your answer in the comments. Anyway, have a happy holiday’s everyone!
*And hey, the Go-Go bar/brothel scenes do nothing for books, I’m just saying.